It’s only when you accept every flaw and I mean every single one. Your bad decisions, all the moments in your life you look back on and regret. The horrible places you’ve been in your life and the moments of weakness you felt when you went against your word or morals. The times where you aren’t staying true to yourself and to the times when you look back and you see a completely different, sad, hurt, and stupid little person. You need to learn to love and forgive yourself. You need to love the good, stupid, ugly, happy, and sad moments in your life. To begin to grow, change, learn, and turn your life around you need to accept, forgive, learn and let go. You don’t need to forgive the people that have destroyed you but you cannot be your worst enemy forever. Above all you need to accept and forgive yourself before real change will happen. As horrible as regretting things feels its the only way you know you will never make that poor decision again because you don’t ever want to feel as low as you feel right now again, ever again. The harder you try to forget about the mistakes you made or try to be in denial about them the more they will begin to consume your life, thoughts, and relationships with the people around you. Embrace your stupid decisions and become better then them. Don’t sit there and let them define you. You’re better then that. You’re better then your weakest, most depressing moments. And you’re better then your biggest regret because you’re going to learn from it and create a smarter and stronger version of yourself. It’s never to late.
If only I had an enemy that was greater then my own regret.
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